We have two kids, a 14 month old and 2.5. We're sinking financially, and with the current shelter-in-place order (SF Bay Area, CA, USA) we're struggling to just get distraction-free time to try to slow the decline. We have joked about just scattering goldfish crackers on the ground and ignoring the kids. Unfortunately, we are not heartless, and children fundamentally require constant engagement. We have forgiven ourselves for excessive TV time lately, and I know there just aren't clear-cut answers, but please tell me how you're coping if you're in a similar situation. Have you stopped doing housework/showers/wearing clean clothes?